Relatives' Memory Singing Guide
Volume 1: Familiar Songs for Connection
Create meaningful moments of connection through enjoying familiar songs.

You are visiting your elderly relative. Perhaps your mother or father? In a care or nursing home perhaps. Maybe they have been able to come and see you. Or it could be you do more than visiting - you are a carer yourself, looking after them at home. You want the visit and relationship to be meaningful. But there is a recurring problem: What to do when the conversation doesn't flow? What if they don't respond? How can you make your time together or a brief visit more special?
Most of all: How can you feel close to them again?
You are so fond of the elderly person in front of you but feel frustrated, annoyed and sad all at the same time - because you cannot communicate properly with them.
However, there is a tool that almost universally solves this challenge: Music! Familiar songs create moments of recognition, comfort, and togetherness. This is why I created the Relatives’ Memory Singing Guide.
This guide shows you how to use simple singing as a gentle bridge to connection. You do NOT need to be an experienced singer!! By simply softly singing along together to tried & tested melodies, popular, easy songs your loved one will recognise you can transform your visit into a special memory. I know. You will see why in a minute.
WHAT'S INCLUDED IN THE RELATIVES' MEMORY SINGING GUIDE:
Intro Video
PDF Guide
5 A Capella Song Videos
Song Companion Sheet
Created from Real Experience
As "Tina Jay", a Vintage Vocal Entertainer and specialising in care settings, I have sung for and with the elderly hundreds of times. I have seen people of all ages and abilities come alive in so many different ways. The songs I am giving you inside this guide have proven popular many times over - and are always enjoyed by all.

A Brief Moment Can Mean A Lot
Music transcends verbal language and has the power to turn sadness into happiness, dullness into animation - and apathy into recognition. Hearing the tunes your relative once listened to on the radio, remembers from going to dances, courting their sweetheart or recalls hearing as a child can make ALL the difference to your visit. Singing those "Oldies But Goodies" gently and softly (or loudly :-)) together with your elderly relative or friend means you can open up a whole new way of connection and understanding between the two of you. You will find the songs energise you both, uplift you and have the power to create a new "language" and closeness between you. You will enjoy your time together and leave with gladness in your heart.
Therefore I invite you warmly to give this a try and get the Relatives Memory Singing Guide.
All the songs are sung without instruments (apart from percussion) - in my experience they get in the way. This means you can really hear yourself and your loved one singing along and enjoy all the nuances of the moment.
Volume 1 Launch Price: £ 9.99
Not sure? Try before you buy! Sing along with me now...how does it feel?
Enjoy your guide and remember - your sincere and loving presence is more important than a perfect singing voice!
Relatives’ Memory Singing Guide — Volume 1
© 2026 Christina Juppe (Tina Jay)
Live singer bringing music and connection to care homes. All rights reserved.

